PUT ON KINDNESS

 

For several weeks, I drank a high protein drink to gain weight but had no results, and I didn’t feel well after I drank it. I tried drinking it more slowly; that helped. But one day I drank it with my lunch and felt so bad that I could scarcely eat dinner that evening. I went to bed at 8 p.m.

Just then my friend Ruth called, and I told her how I felt. She researched the protein drink and found it was a suggested drink for those hoping to LOSE weight. No wonder I had failed to get the desired results. Perhaps feeling unwell was God’s way of telling me this wasn’t working for me.

Since my husband is encouraged to consume more protein because of a health condition, I assumed it would be good for me as well. But no. I’ve got to find another way to put on the pounds. You may wish you had my problem.

I tell you this to say that I so much appreciated the kindness of my friend in researching my protein drink. I had not asked her nor expected her to do that. But she is a model of kindness and regularly reaches out to those who struggle. If someone needs encouragement, she invites them to dinner or takes a meal to them. She is a friend who doesn’t just hear what you say with her ears but she listens with her heart. Then she acts.

Kindness is a fruit of the Spirit: “Love, joy, peace, patience, KINDNESS, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control” (Galatians 5:22-23 NIV 1984, emphasis mine).

I am blessed to have several friends like Ruth. They fit the description of the Proverbs 31 woman: “She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue” (Proverbs 31:26 NIV).

Scripture suggests that kind people hold no grudges: “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32 NIV).

Life offers hard challenges. Divorce is one that breaks relationships and often makes family gatherings uncomfortable. But I have divorced friends who get together at their children’s events without showing animosity toward each other. In fact, they chat amicably with each other. That blesses their families and friends.

Luke reminds us that God is kind even to the wicked:

But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.” Luke 6:35

So we should be kind even to those who offend us. I’ve found that always—always—when I do a kindness for someone who has hurt me, I am the one who ends up blessed.

And Paul reminds us “love is kind” (1 Corinthians 13:4). There are five apartments, including ours, on the fourth floor of our building, and deliveries for us are placed by our first-floor mailboxes. Yet I often find a package or a newspaper right outside my apartment door. I have no idea which of my neighbors delivered it to me, but I appreciate their kindness. And I return the favor when I find packages for them downstairs.

It doesn’t cost much to send a card with a few words of encouragement. That’s being kind.

It doesn’t cost anything to speak words of encouragement to someone. That’s being kind.

Maybe a store clerk is tired and needs a friendly greeting. Or someone waiting in  line is in a hurry and you can let them go ahead of you. That’s being kind.

We’re kind if we surprise someone with a gift. Or remember a special date, maybe a date someone passed, and express sympathy.

As we pick the fruit of the Spirit, we gather all varieties. And kindness is one to share with others that not only tastes sweet but nourishes the soul of the giver and the receiver.

BOOK REVIEW: Letter to the American Church

 

When culture conflicts with scripture, speak out. Author Eric Metaxas maintains what’s happening in American is similar to what happened in Germany during the 1930s when the church was silent in the face of Hitler’s atrocities.

In the book’s introduction, Metaxas writes: “Critical Race Theory—which is atheistic and Marxist—and radical transgender and pro-abortion ideologies are all inescapably anti-God and anti-human.”

Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a German pastor, challenged the church to stand up against forces that oppose God and family. So he and others drew up the “Barman Declaration,” stating that the German state must not govern the Church. But only a sixth of the pastors signed it. Bonhoeffer paid for his opposition with his life. But his insight lives on, as pointed out by Metaxas throughout the book.

Since Romans 13 states believers are to bow to government, many Germans felt they could not disagree with their Fuhrer. I especially appreciated Metaxas’ comments on the parable of the talents. He likens those who fail to speak out because they might be wrong to those who buried their talent in the sand—just to be “safe.”

Metaxas is a cultural commentator whose work has appeared in the New York Times and The Wall Street Journal. He has written a biography on Bonhoeffer. Endorsements from people such as Anne Graham Lotz and Erwin Lutzer speak to the respectability of Metaxas’ message.

Published in 2022 by Salem Books, the book is easy, understandable reading with short chapters. Thought-provoking and inspirational.

 

 

Book Review: STAY SALT

 

As a young Christian, Pippert’s book OUT OF THE SALTSHAKER challenged me to reach my generation for Christ. STAY SALT: THE WORLD HAS CHANGED, OUR MESSAGE MUST NOT updates that book for a new generation facing a culture much less Christianity-friendly than my generation had been.

Pippert helps us recognize our excuses for sharing our faith and challenges us to rely on God rather than our own competence. She offers an overview of creation and the fall to help us answer people’s questions about why things are as they are in today’s world. I especially appreciated learning the questions she asks to help people question their own skepticism about faith.

Along the way, Pippert offers books to provide further insight. I loved the stories of her personal experiences of casually engaging people in conversations about faith. The need to reach others is urgent. She quoted Nigerian pastors telling her: “We beg you, do not compromise your faith, when we in Africa are dying for ours.”

In this book Pippert shares how we can present the good news of Jesus through what she’s gained through two decades of church ministry across American, an international ministry around the world and seven years of ministry in Europe.

The book ends with guidelines for leaders interested in training Christians to share their faith. I recommend it for all Christians who want to invite people into God’s fold—and isn’t that all of us?

Book Review: From Ignorance to Bliss

 

From Ignorance to Bliss: God’s Heart Revealed through Down Syndrome by Annie Yorty

This is a sobering yet delightful glimpse into the feelings of a mother raising a child born with Down Syndrome. The book concludes with a chapter written by Alyssa herself, now in her thirties but still a child at heart.

Annie Yorty doesn’t sugarcoat the challenges she’s faced. But she also shares the joy that comes from helping Alyssa develop and grow to her full potential. She has learned to read and write and loves to share her love of Jesus with others. Alyssa even accompanied her mother and participated in ministering on a mission trip to Siberia.

I enjoyed the format of the book, which is written as a series of short essays with titles such as “Collision Course,” “Dream Big,” “Un-Expectations” and “Believing is Seeing.” Endorsers include author Josh D. McDowell and director of digital content at FocusontheFamily.com, Dr. Craig von Buseck.

The book opened my eyes to blessings that can be found in life’s toughest challenges. Annie Yorty is transparent in sharing the heart of a mother accepting a child different from the one she expected. Her faith has supported her and enabled her to move from ignorance of the Down Syndrome condition to the bliss of seeing God’s hand in life’s challenges. 

Annie’s experiences offer insight to anyone dealing with challenges. A good read that I highly recommend.

Book Review: Once Upon a Wardrobe

 

           

          I had a hard time putting this book down. I loved Patti Callahan’s storytelling writing style. She weaves a story about British writer and scholar C. S. Lewis within a story about a young woman called Meg and her little brother George. The boy, an invalid, read Lewis’ book titled THE LION, THE WITCH AND THE WARDROBE, and begged Meg, a student at Oxford where Lewis taught, to find out where Narnia came from.

          A fan of C. S. Lewis’s writings, I found Callahan’s imagination and skill with writing to be fascinating. Although it’s a novel, this book offers a glimpse into the British lifestyle of an earlier day and portrays Lewis as a warm personable tutor and friend.

          I’m looking forward to reading another of Callahan’s books about a divorced woman who came to know Lewis through letter writing and eventually married him: BECOMING MRS. LEWIS. Callahan’s writing style is unique and entertaining and pulls you right along with the story.

Book Review: God of All Things: Rediscovering the Sacred in an Everyday World

 

         We don’t usually think of God when we pick up a dust cloth or a saltshaker. But after reading fun facts and tie-ins to the divine in ordinary objects and in occurrences such as earthquakes and rainbows, we may see them differently. Andrew Wilson does a masterful job of helping us appreciate traces of God in the mundane.

          Pigs, tools, horns, stones, donkeys and the sun are just some of the topics in which Wilson finds interesting tie-ins to spiritual matters. He helps us discern and notice God in our universe while going about our daily duties.

          The book is an easy read with short chapters and notes in the back matter. I read this as a library book but plan to buy it for future reference. The back cover describes Wilson as a pastor and author who finds in created things “illustrations of the character and gospel of God.” Definitely, a good read.

           

 

THE DEBATE CONTINUES

On June 6, 2022, the Supreme Court reversed Roe v. Wade, a ruling made by that court in 1973 that gave women a constitutional right to abortion. With the more recent ruling, the decision to allow abortion to be legal or to restrict abortion reverts to the states.[1]

          Some argue that this decision belongs to pregnant women alone since women should be able to exercise control over their own bodies. They also say women who face decisions about delivering babies with severe congenital abnormalities should have the right to decide the fate of such babies. After all, who would want a baby to suffer what might be a painful life? Others, however, argue that life is sacred, both before and after birth, and must be protected.

          So the debate continues. Is it a woman’s right to choose or is it a baby’s right to live? Does life begin at conception or does life begin at birth? Should abortion be allowed until a fetal heartbeat can be detected or should it not be allowed at all? Those are just some of the questions with which we wrestle.

          I’m a woman, and I want control over my own body. But I’m also a mother, and I know the indescribable feeling that comes as you cradle a newborn child in your arms. I also experienced empty arms, the death of a baby girl whose lungs were not fully developed. I know the anguish and long-term grief that comes after such a loss.

While I realize that even among Christians there are differing views on the topic of abortion, here is how I, as a Christian woman, interpret scripture.

          God created life from the get-go: “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb” (Psalm 139:13 NIV). This embryo that is knit together is a tiny little person in the making. This is a Logan or a Leah or an Emmy or an Eli. This is a Mark or a McKenna or an Amelia or an Elijah. This is the start of a living, breathing human being.

          God has a purpose for this life. Babies are blessings in the making. “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart” (Jeremiah 1:5). God said that of the prophet Jeremiah, and He says no less of each of us. Babies become maintenance workers and teachers, nurse and doctors. They grow up to be electricians and truck drivers, mathematicians and store clerks. They become moms and dads and beloved children. Each individual has a role and a calling. And each individual, no matter their capability, contributes to our society.

          God makes all things beautiful. “He has made everything beautiful in its time” (Ecclesiastes 3:11). But, some may say, what of those babies who arrive with congenital abnormalities or those who will only live a few hours anyway? Well, God makes not just “some things” but “all things” beautiful.

          I have read testimonies of how children, not considered “perfect” by the world, have blessed parents to no end. Is God not able to use even imperfections for good? To help us develop patience and tolerance? To help us appreciate and celebrate life? Yes, He is able.

          Tim Tebow’s mother was advised to have an abortion after she suffered an illness from contaminated water and was told the medication she took might cause severe disabilities. She refused to abort, and her son became an outstanding football player known for expressing his faith.[2]

          But some may say, what if I can’t afford another mouth to feed? What if I’m a student, in no position to care for a child? What if I was raped or abused or in some way forced to conceive?

          Those are difficult situations, to be sure. But if a woman needs help, others stand ready to assist. Women can seek help from pregnancy centers that support babies and families. They can search out a compassionate church, a trustworthy friend or a women’s shelter. God has many ways to see women through such  experiences. If a mother feels she cannot care for a child, she might consider placing her baby for adoption. There are countless couples who dream of having a baby to hold and love.

Although some might agree that all life is sacred and should be valued, they raise another important question: What if a woman’s life is in danger? That question and all these questions related to abortion may best be answered through prayer and consultation with spiritual advisors and doctors, conversations with husbands and families.

          I don’t have all the answers. Many would certainly offer rebuttals to the points I’ve made. But as God reigns in our hearts and lives, He surely guides and directs. May we all experience His peace as we make decisions that affect our lives and the lives of our children—both born and unborn.

 

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[1] https://www.npr.org/2022/06/24/1102305878/supreme-court-abortion-roe-v-wade-decision-overturn

[2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tim_Tebow 

When God is Silent

 

 I believe in the sun even when it is not shining, I believe in love even when I cannot feel it, I believe in God even when he is silent.” That note, written on a wall during the Holocaust, was quoted by a writer in The Upper Room (November 18).

 As I thank God that I’m warm and well fed, safe and secure, I often think of those who aren’t. Those in refugee camps, in areas experiencing famine, in war-torn territories. Yet, God is silent.

 As I watch television commercials showing children with cancer and cleft lips and hunger, I could cry. I know I can’t solve the immense problems of the world, much as I want to. Yet God is silent.

 Then there’s the mystery of God’s silence when I pray. Many of my prayers have not been answered. Others, far less important, have been answered–right away!

 Recently, I misplaced the key to a neighbor’s house. Since we’re going to be moving, I wanted to return it. I’m sure I shot up prayers now and then over the last couple weeks as I’ve searched for that key. But as I finished cleaning out my desk, I was desperate. I bowed my head and prayed for help. And there was the key. In a nook beneath my desk calendar holder, right in front of me.

 Sometimes, God speaks through others, but we tune them out. This week Kim and Janine visited their youth group members to drop off candy and invitations to church events for them and their parents. Through Kim and Janine, God was speaking to people, some who may have little interest in church. Did they hear Him?

 If we understood everything, we would be God. That’s why I walk by faith even when–especially when–God is silent. I trust the God who created the universe and keeps everything running on a daily basis. I trust this God whether the news is good or bad. Tsunamis, hurricanes, shootings. Not good. But the station on which I watch the nightly news always ends on a high note, a story of someone doing something kind, something exceptional. Is that God I hear?

 “Though the fig tree does not bud and no fruit is on the vines, through the olive crop fails and the fields produce no food, though the sheep are cut off from the fold and no cattle in the stalls, yet I will exult in the Lord; I will rejoice in the God of my salvation” (Habbakuk 3:17 NIV).

 Yes, let’s rejoice in God as we celebrate the birth of His Son Jesus. Let’s rejoice in the God who came to earth as a tiny babe, showed us how to live and died so that someday we may live with Him forever. Let’s hear the messages He speaks through the carols and the cards. And through friends who invite us to church.

 God may at times be silent but he’s never absent. He’s always working to draw us to Himself so that together with Him we can bless others.

 Have a Blessed Christmas!

BOOK REVIEW: Merton's Palace of Nowhere

 

Merton’s Palace of Nowhere: A Search for God through Awareness of the True Self by James Finley

 This book explores spirituality, especially contemplative prayer, as understood by Thomas Merton, an American theologian and mystic.

 Merton viewed life from the perspective of a false self and a true self. Basically, the false self is man prior to redemption, whereas the true self is the redeemed man. He describes the false self as “someone that I was never intended to be and therefore a denial of what I am supposed to be.”

 We find our true selves in faith through service and communion with God in wordless prayer. Merton likens this experience to the ripening of an apple on a tree: It takes place in God’s time.

 Author James Finley writes “The purpose of our prayer is to help us find God, so that we consciously and gratefully live this life, and through our presence invite others to live it as well.”

 I appreciated the many quotes from Merton sprinkled throughout the book that offer insight into the mind and soul of a soulful man.

 This book opened my eyes to the beauty of spending a concentrated time of prayer simply sitting before God, listening, rather than telling Him what to do. It’s a great read for anyone seeking a deeper spirituality.

  

Let Us Pray . . . In a Different Way - Part 2

 

A few months ago I wrote of three different ways to pray and promised to share more ways with you.

 First, I will describe my personal daily prayer time pattern. For many years now, I’ve adapted a prayer journal (PRAYERS OF MY HEART by Debbie Taylor Williams) that lists the days of the week in rows down the side of a double-page spread and leaves space for nine column headings across the top. I use one spread per month and fill rows for only Monday through Friday. Weekends I pray spontaneously about whatever is on my heart.

 My column headings are Family, Friends of the Heart (my speaking ministry team), Friends, Personal, Missions, Needs and Country. Even though listed on various days, I pray for all but Friends and Missions on a daily basis. I use this “listing” method because if I did not, I’d forget some of those for whom I want to pray as time goes by. Yet there are just too many friends and missionaries to pray for all on a daily basis.

 My prayer time always starts by praising God for giving me everything I need through His creation, praising Jesus for my salvation and praising the Holy Spirit for His inspiration. Then I confess my sins before going on to the columns. I finish with general thanksgiving and praise and sing a song or two from a hymnal.

 That’s my general pattern. When I’m ill, I may simply picture myself curled in the lap of God, drawing comfort from Him. When I have early appointments and miss my prayer time, I simply connect with God on the run.

 Second, I refresh my prayer time any day of the week by using the centering, scripture or lament styles I previously shared or one of the following patterns, all of which Adele Ahlberg Calhoun describes in SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINES.

 Welcoming Prayer: This is my favorite. In this prayer, you simply welcome God into the events and relationships that you’re praying about. Instead of telling God what you want, you release your sense of control and invite Jesus into the situation. 

 Calhoun suggests we notice when a person or event triggers something within us and simply pray “Welcome, Jesus, welcome.” She suggests we anticipate the events of the day and invite Jesus into them.

 Conversational Prayer: In this style, we talk naturally to God as we pray WITH others. We might do this when a friend expresses a need either in person, by phone (or even in email). Just ask, “May I pray with you about that?” and then talk to God about their need. You might suggest that the two of you take turns praying. And you can pray conversationally with others in a Bible study group (as I do with Friends of the Heart) or with a family member. My husband and I take turns praying before meals and at bedtime.

 It may be hard to get over self-consciousness (at least it was for me) about praying out loud, but try it a time or two and the blessing outweighs the initial discomfort. 

 Breath Prayer: This form of contemplative prayer is linked to the in-and-out pattern of breathing. Calhoun suggests breathing in with a name of God (Jesus, Father, Abba, Precious Lord) and breathing out with a brief description of a need. I think of it simply as calling out to God throughout the day with needs or with praises.

 Now having said all that, I want to stress that prayer is simply seeking God. There is no formula. We usually seek communion with God through communication. But communion might also be realized wordlessly–sitting beneath a tree, feeling a breeze, watching a flower. We simply need to be alone, be quiet and be determined to draw closer to God. And He will draw closer to us.

 Incorporate one of these ways of praying this week and you’ll be blessed. No matter how or how frequently we pray, God hears our prayers. So let us pray . . . one way or another.

 

Speeding Through the 80's

 

I’m worried. I recently got lost in a department store. After wandering from exit to exit trying to find my way to a parking lot, a kind clerk pointed me in the right direction. Then this morning I lost a Google document. I know. My friend tells me it’s impossible to lose a Google Doc. Well, I lost one. At least it’s lost to me.

Such is life in the 80’s. The decade, that is, not the speed zone. In case you’ve forgotten your age, you know you’re in the 80’s when:

--You no longer iron shirts. Touch up the collar and front and they’re good to go. They’re hidden under jackets anyway.

--And the same goes for pillow cases. Oh, that wrinkle-free fabric could use a touch up, but by the time you slip it over a pillow, most wrinkles disappear. Besides, you’ll never see them while you sleep.

--You’re no longer duped by television commercials. That woman jumping rope because she’s taking xyz medication? Have you ever listened to the possible side effects? Who wants to jump rope anyway?

            --You see more of your doctor and your physical therapist (and they see more of you) than you do your old friends (most of whom have now graduated to heaven). And you now have a doctor for each body part. To be honest, a doctor’s visit turns out to be a nice diversion from puttering around the house.

            --You no longer run to answer the phone. It’s in your pocket—if you can remember you put it there. Nine out of ten calls are either scams or automated voices telling you your prescription is ready, so no need to hurry.

            --Visits to the grocery store become welcome social events. You enjoy chatting along the aisles. But you do wish someone would train that young cashier, the one who puts three two-quart cartons in one bag, to look at you. Do you look like you could lift that bag into and out of your trunk? And where’s your senior discount? Look at me, you young whippersnapper.

            --You prefer to watch birds over watching television. Any sex scenes are on the fly. Oh you may still watch a game show or two, but other than those, it’s more fun to read or work jigsaw or Sudoku puzzles. Good for that aging brain too!

            Such is life in the 80’s express lane. And as my husband’s dialysis doctor reminds him, no matter what the challenges, it’s better to be upright than horizontal. Better to see over the steering wheel too. So enjoy the journey, no matter the speed bumps.

Passing the Baton

 

HE PASSES THE BATON

Through preaching and practice, Brooke Solberg passes the baton of Christian ministry to the next generation. He’s my former pastor, mentor and friend, a city boy who preached at a little country church. By the time he left, 31 people, myself included, had committed ourselves to Christian service.

            A “Festschrift” compiled by the congregation in Brooke’s honor includes the writings of people influenced by Dr. W. Richard "Brooke" Solberg, during his 21 years serving what is now David’s Community Church in Millersburg, Pennsylvania. In his written tribute, a seminary dean recognized Brooke as a young Timothy and wrote, “But you, man of God . . . pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness.” I Timothy 6:11.

            And Brooke, who grew up in Brooklyn, had taken that scriptural admonition seriously from the get go. We watched him and his wife Ruth raise four children. In everyday life, they showed our congregation the spiritual maturity the apostle Paul wrote about and inspired us to grow in Christ.

Brooke also inspired us to serve beyond church doors. If someone shared with him a burden they had for ministry, he told them to run with it and supported them in prayer. He helped them use secular skills in ministry within and far beyond the church.

One man offered a sign language class; some of us taught after-school Bible clubs and released time classes. One woman developed a Good Samaritan ministry to offer transportation, meals and support in various ways. In time people left our flock to serve as pastors, missionaries and church planters throughout the world.

Brooke’s faith in Christ as “the way, the truth, and the life” (John 14:6) showed up throughout our region. He served as a chaplain in the 193^rd PA Air National Guard, Middletown, and he combined Harrisburg Hospital visits with playing basketball at the YMCA. Fellow Guard members and basketball players sometimes visited our church, where Brooke preached from scripture, often verse-by-verse.

He became known for saying “watch my hands” as he gestured to illustrate sermon points. Many times he made fun of himself in ways that made us laugh.

            When we asked Brooke about puzzling Bible passages, he always said, “Let’s look at it in context,” and off we went to solve the puzzle.

            Brooke and Ruth saw potential in me and others that we didn’t see in ourselves. I felt challenged when they asked me to organize and lead a Christian education committee. I was, at the time, a public school teacher, and while I was comfortable speaking to high school students, I was terrified in front of adults. The Solbergs led me from small speaking venues to larger settings and helped me overcome that fear.

During the Solbergs’ ministry with us, my husband and I experienced the greatest crisis of our lives, the death of our only daughter a few hours after her birth. The congregation had prayed for us. How could this happen?

            But Brooke counseled, “We ask; we don’t demand.” He and Ruth offered tissues, shoulders to cry on and a faith that did not waver. Their prayers calmed and soothed our souls—and the souls of many in our congregation and in the wider community who suffered losses and sorrows.

In time, Brooke suggested I fill the void left in my life by our baby’s death by taking Christian education courses at a seminary. I was in my late thirties and nervous about returning to the classroom. But with his encouragement, I eventually earned a master’s degree in that field and served on that church staff.

            As a staff member, Brooke respected my input, shared his ideas with me and encouraged me to develop programs. He and Ruth served as close, trusted and experienced counselors. I am grateful my children grew up with their children and enjoyed the Solbergs’ teaching, friendship and leadership.

            After he left our congregation, Brooke served for 12 years at a city church, where many more entered Christian service. Throughout his ministry, he has often served as a guest speaker and retreat leader for other churches and denominations. After retirement he served as an interim pastor for his denomination and later served an inner city church, counseling many who came to Christ after overcoming addictions and other struggles. Now 86, he was named pastor emeritus at Faith Evangelical Free Church, Allentown, and serves part-time as pastor of the older generation.

            More than 100 people wrote tributes to Brooke in the Festschrift. Like Timothy, Brooke’s life attests to a faithful and fruitful ministry as a disciple of Christ. May those of us he discipled continue to pass on the baton of faith and ministry.

(If Brooke's ministry has touched your life, leave a comment below and I'll be sure he sees it. If you receive this post by email, go to shirleybrosius.blogspot.com to leave a comment.) 

 

Book Review: Resilience

 

Resilient: Restoring Your Weary Soul in These Turbulent Times by John Eldredge

 Times are tough, but according to John Eldredge “The story of God has been, is now and always will be the story of the world.” To respond to the turmoil of today’s news, we need resilience.

 We need God’s strength to face hardships and challenges. In a world in turmoil with pandemics and politics, it’s more important than ever to concentrate on the fact that God is good and He is with us.

 Eldredge included some ideas I had not thought of in that light. For instance, he compared the Old Testament temple filled with God’s glory to us as Christians filled with that temple glory.

 In the chapter that most challenged me, Eldredge addresses our “unconverted places,” the times when we cave in to pressures or lose our cool. But, he says, maturity is no longer optional.

 I liked the end-of-chapter “Skill” sections that suggested ways to help us grow. I also liked the way Eldredge introduced each chapter with a short story about someone.

 He concludes the book by helping us write a personal prescription to help ourselves respond to the challenges of today.

 Published by Nelson Books in 2022, this book can surely help each reader draw closer to God in one way or another.

 

 

Book Review: The Deeply Formed Life

 

                          

The Deeply Formed Life: Five Transformative Values to Root Us in the Way of Jesus

This book offers fresh takes on practices you’ve already established, such as prayer and Bible reading, but also approaches topics you may not associate with spiritual maturity, such as sexuality and racial reconciliation. “Instead of being deeply formed we settle for being shallowly shaped,” writes author Rich Villodas.

He calls for self examination and reflection on hopes and dreams or fears and anxieties so that we don’t seal off parts of our lives. He guides readers on looking inward to see what patterns they may have developed from their families of origin.

In discussing racial reconciliation, Villodas quotes Dr. Brenda Salter McNeil, a pastor and author: “Reconciliation is an ongoing spiritual process involving forgiveness, repentance and justice that restores broken relationships and systems to reflect God’s original intention for all creation to flourish.”

Villodas is the pastor of a church in Queens with more than 75 countries represented. Published by Waterbrook in 2020, The Deeply Formed Life is easily read and understood. I like the quotes Villodas included from experts in various fields and also the Afterword with challenging questions such as “What practices is this season (of life) calling me to engage in?”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Let's Tout the Hoot!

 The early morning hoot of an owl blessed my heart. In my mind’s eye, I saw him perched high in a tree, awakening the dawn. On occasion I’ve spotted an owl in the daytime, his fuller body and wider head differing from a hawk. I rarely hear owls, so this hoot was a special treat.

            That same morning I saw the first bluebird of the season checking out our birdhouse. And daffodils poked up green fingers at the edge of our yard. To God be the glory for the good gifts of nature.

Five Reasons to Thank God for Nature:

            Nature reminds us of the greatness of God. In Job 39, God reminds Job of who He is and the power He has. He laid the earth’s foundation, fixed limits for the sea, and created creatures great and small, wild, and tame: owls, donkeys, eagles, and puppies, to name just a few.

            Only God knows the path of a thunderstorm and how mountain goats give birth. Only He governs the instincts of animals from the ostrich that doesn’t have the sense to nurture her young to the horse that charges into battle.

            Nature gives us something to explore and talk about with children and grandchildren. At a hunting camp, we walk down trails, dictionary in hand, identifying wildflowers. At home, we consult “the bird book” to identify visitors to our feeder. The rare indigo bunting or yellow-breasted sapsucker have been special treats.

            When grandson Scott was three-years-old, I held him on my lap, pointing out squirrels leaping from branch to branch, high in the trees. I asked him if he would like to do that. With all seriousness he replied, “Mommy said ‘no.’” I treasure such memories.

            Nature offers us opportunities to care for the earth, as God commanded in Genesis 1. We tend our lawn, recycle plastics, paper, and books. Under fluorescent bulbs, my husband, Bill, grows flower plants from seed. He then plants and tends a flowerbed.

            Nature offers opportunities to exercise. Gardening, caring for yards, and raising crops all keep us in shape physically. Taking walks, canoeing, kayaking, or playing outdoor games all offer exercise.

            Along the Susquehanna River in our capitol city, beds of flowers spread between spaces with equipment to do push-ups, chin-ups, and other sorts of exercise.

            Nature entertains us in our senior years. As Bill and I eat breakfast we watch the birds at the feeder. We once spotted an eagle soaring above our home. We enjoy seeing deer running through our yard and nibbling our flowers. Well, maybe not so much the latter. But we only chase them when they chomp on one of our tomato plants. We decorate our porch and deck with hanging baskets and planters. All this brings peace to our souls when we look out our windows or sit on our front porch rocking chairs. To God be the glory!

Ask the animals, and they will teach you, or the birds in the sky, and they will tell you; or speak to the earth, and it will teach you, or let the fish of the sea inform you. Which of all these does not know that the hand of the Lord has done this? In his hand is the life of every creature and the breath of all mankind” (Job 12:7-10 NIV).

            Whether we live in an apartment with houseplants, in a house with flowerbeds in our yards, or on a farm with fields of golden grain, let’s thank God for nature and enjoy the treasures He has created. To God be the glory!

Book Review: Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy

 

 

Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy: Discovering the Grace of Lament by Mark Vroegop

 This book will enrich your life and equip you to pray about personal and national issues with a fresh approach. Part 1 breaks down the basic structure of psalms that express grief or sorrow (at least a third of the psalms); Part 2 examines the book of Lamentations; and Part 3 suggests how you can use such biblical expressions to pray for yourself and your community.

 Author Mark Vroegop is no stranger to lament. As he and his wife suffered through the loss of a stillborn daughter and several miscarriages, he sought and found strength in God’s Word. In Psalms, Vroegop discovered a four-part pattern of laments that lead from anguish and hopelessness to renewed hope. 

 In the book of Lamentations, the prophet Jeremiah grieves the destruction of Jerusalem and its temple by the invading Babylonians. As we grieve over today’s world conflicts, we can relate to such feelings of despair. But both the psalms of lament and the book of Lamentations offer a roadway to grace and remind us God is on His throne.

 The book contains helpful appendixes including one that categorizes the psalms and another that offers a “Learning-to-Lament” worksheet. There’s also a bibliography, a general index and a scripture index.

 Don’t be put off by the heavy tone of the title. This book offers Christians a valuable and workable guide to express feelings of depression and despair. 

 

Let Us Pray . . . In a Different Way

 

A Morning Watch opened my eyes in more ways than one. Several months ago our pastor invited us to join him for prayer at 6 a.m. on Thursday mornings, either in his office or via Zoom. I’m a “morning person,” so the time is fine, except at that hour I’m usually in my jammies with a bedhead. Nevertheless, I Zoomed in. And I’m glad I did.

 Each week Pastor Peter shares devotional thoughts, including different ways of praying. Since then, I’ve also read up on prayer. Here’s how three patterns of prayer have blessed my heart.

 CENTERING PRAYER: Read slowly and out loud a verse or a paragraph of scripture. Repeat three times. Then choose a word or phrase from that passage. Set a timer for ten or fifteen minutes, then close your eyes and meditate on the word or phrase you chose. You’re not praying “for” something. You’re listening to hear what God says to your heart about that word or phrase.

 One morning I focused on “living in love” from Ephesians 5:2. As I meditated, I realized if I can just live in an awareness of God’s love at all times and in all places, it will not matter what happens to me. Well, it’s not that it won’t matter, but I will be more aware that God is with me, loves me and comforts me. And furthermore, I can pass on that love to others. Of course it’s easier said than done, but I want to work on “living in love.”

 SCRIPTURAL PRAYER: Pattern your prayer after one of the prayers found in scripture. For starters, there are the prayers of Hannah (1 Samuel 1: 11 and 2:1-10), Daniel (Daniel 9:4-16), Hezekiah (2 Kings 20:2-3), Mary (Luke 1:38 and 46-55) and Paul (Ephesians 1:15-23; Philippians 1:9-11; Colossians 1:9-14). 

 I’ve prayed Daniel’s pattern of prayer for America and Paul’s pattern for family and friends. Paul reminds me to pray for spiritual growth for others, not just for what makes them happy. Many other passages of scripture might prompt prayers.

 PRAYERS OF LAMENT: These prayers spell out your feelings: complaints, anger, sufferings, frustrations and heartaches. Rather than stifle your pain, you tell God exactly how you feel. God knows what’s in your heart anyway, so you let it all out. You pound the table and weep!

 I prayed this prayer before I ever knew it was called a prayer of lament. After the death of our infant daughter, I discovered my heart echoed the cries of the psalmist in Psalm 42. I sought to know God in a deeper way (v. 1 - my soul pants for you), yet I cried at unexpected times during the day and as soon as I put my head on the pillow at night (v. 3 - my tears have been my food day and night). 

 I asked, how a baby could die at birth in the 20th century? I felt depressed (v. 5 - my soul, why are you downcast). Yet I remembered how God had been with me in the past and clung to the hope that He would see me through the present (v. 11 - I will yet praise him).

 That psalm, that prayer of lament, was a lifeline that I clung to during the weeks, months and really years of grief. Grief doesn’t “go away.” You learn to cope with it and move on with life. Many psalms can help you heal as you echo the psalmist’s “lament.”

 Pick one of these styles of prayer and give it a try. God enjoys your company. He longs to talk WITH you rather than just listen TO you. You will feel blessed. And I’d love to hear about your experience.

 

He Calls YOUR Name

Whether I’m called Shirley, Mrs. Brosius, Ms. Brosius or even Miss Shirley, I feel good when I hear that name. Well, not if someone’s yelling. But if I’m sitting in a waiting room, it means someone knows I’m there. If I’m teaching in a classroom, it means someone needs me. If I’m mulling in a crowd, it means someone recognizes me and wants to talk to me.

 I once narrated a church cantata that opened with a verse that makes me feel safe, secure, and significant: “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name, you are mine” (Isaiah 43:1, ESV).

 Isaiah penned that verse while writing about the derelict state of Israel. The people had sinned, ignored God’s laws and experienced God’s discipline. Yet God called them by name and called them His own.

 And He also calls us by name. Every. Single. One. Of. Us. “To me, you are very dear and I love you” (Isaiah 43:4, CEV). God said that to Israel, and He says that to each of us. We are precious in His sight. He invites us to walk the journey of life with Him because He enjoys our company. 

 If we are in a waiting room where we’re questioning if God really cares, He whispers, “Come to My side so I can care for you in this situation.”

 If we’re going through rough times and God seems far away, He whispers, “I haven’t moved. Just close your eyes and rest in My presence. I will guide you through this. Trust me.”

 If we are searching for significance, God says, “My child, serve others and you serve Me. I have no hands and feet on this earth but yours.”

 We may not recognize His voice. But if we have a nudge to “do something” for someone–send a card, say a prayer, serve a blessing–He’s calling us by name.

 Recently in a room full of people wearing masks, I heard my name. I couldn’t tell who called me until the person pulled down her mask. Then I recognized her. So we may not recognize that God was near us until years later when we find a blessing blossomed from a problem.

 We may not feel worthy to be called. Perhaps we’ve messed up, and we want to hide in a corner. No matter. Jesus knows all about our messes, and still loves us and calls us by name. 

 When dark clouds hover, God calls us to trust Him. When life is full of sunshine, God calls us to praise Him. So listen for Your name today. Does God want to teach you? To care for you? To equip you? Whatever your need, God is there for you.

 He calls us by name. We are His. Answer His call and you’ll find He loves you and walks with you over mountains and through deep valleys on a life-long journey of faith, hope and love.

 

Our Prayers; God's Answers

 I was delighted to find a $100 gift card for Macy’s when I looked in a drawer for something else. My husband, Bill, gave me that card for Christmas a couple years ago. Then Covid struck, and I never spent it. So off we went on a shopping spree, and I found a spring coat for $130. I handed the checkout clerk my gift card and credit card, and she said I owed $120 on my credit card.

 “Oh,” I said. “The gift card is for $100.” She looked at her register again and informed me the gift card had only $10 left on it. Then I remembered. I bought shoes with that card and forgot to mark the remaining balance on the card’s envelope.

 It gets better. The little square envelope containing the gift card also held a Macy’s credit card. I had searched and searched for that card. I finally considered it lost and got a new one.

 I then bought a pair of slacks and walked to the exit. Bill had stayed in the car. Only problem was, I couldn’t find the exit that led to that parking lot. I asked a clerk, and she led me to doors that led to steps. I had not come in doors with steps. She continued to lead me around this maze of a store, and I finally got out and happily dropped into our car. According to my watch, I had walked .8 of a mile that morning. And I’m sure .79 was at Macy’s.

 Life can be complicated. And that’s just a silly example. How about the complications that come from facing inoperable cancer or recovering from major injuries or fleeing from bombs with nowhere to go?

 I’ve been reading David’s psalms. Can you imagine growing up a shepherd boy and then being anointed to be king? Can you imagine killing a giant and then being appointed to play a lyre to sooth King Saul’s anxiety attacks? Can you imagine how, after all that, you would feel when the king turned on you and threatened your life?

 Of the 73 psalms attributed to David, 13 can be linked to incidents in his life. For four years, this anointed shepherd boy, this anointed king, was on the run from a jealous King Saul. And David waited 15 years to become king of Judah and seven more to reign over all of Israel. Talk about a journey in faithfulness.

 In the psalms, David denounced his enemies and prayed for their demise. But even though God did not immediately answer, David praised God. During those long, challenging years, David praised God for His creation, for His protection and for His provision. He celebrated a God who was there for Him.

 Psalm 22 begins with David asking why God dumped him miles from nowhere. He laments the “herds of bulls” that come at him, “horns lowered, nostrils flaring.” But he then praises God, not for what He does but for who He is:

 “Shout Hallelejah, you God worshipers; give glory, you sons of Jacob; adore him, you daughters of Israel. He has never let you down, never looked the other way when you were being kicked around . . . . He has been right there, listening” (Psalm 22:23-24 The Message).

 And that same God is listening to us. Just as I could not find my way out of Macy’s, we may not find our way out of the maze of life as quickly as we want. But whether God answers now or then, here or there, He is with us, and that is enough. We praise Him not for what He does but for who He is as Lord of the universe.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Book Review: Spiritual Disciplines Handbook

 

 If you feel your spiritual life lacks luster, this book is for you. In Spiritual Disciplines Handbook: Practices that Transform Us Author Adele Ahlberg Calhoun offers dozens of ways to enhance how we open ourselves to God.

 Six parts with 12 topics each help you vary your routine of relating to God. And each topic includes a chart giving an overview of the practice, a one-page description of the practice, reflection questions, spiritual exercises and resources.

 For instance, the prayer section includes the subjects of breath prayer, centering prayer, contemplative prayer, conversational prayer and many more. A section on hearing God’s Word includes the topics of Bible study, devotional reading, meditation and memorization.

 When I bought the book, I thought I would use it as a resource rather than read through it. But I found the suggestions so good, I am reading through it and incorporating ideas as I go. I would really like to take a week and explore each topic. 

 Calhoun writes in a conversational, readable manner. The book opens with Contents, a Preface to the Revised Edition and a listing of The Spiritual Disciplines and Desires. The introduction subhead is titled “Discovering Your Desire.” Ten appendixes include a spiritual growth planner, a series on spiritual disciplines for the congregation and using the handbook with small groups (sounds like a great idea to me). A glossary and bibliography conclude the book.

 If you’re serious about growing spiritually, you will appreciate this book.